1. I am not a commie.

2. Titus was replying to badboy (which I'll assume you already knew).

3. refrain. v. To hold back; forbear; abstain; withhold.

He wouldn't ever do that...



...What was the last thing I said to you...I said that I didn't want to hurt you, that I cared for you, and that I loved you...that this was just something I had to do for my life...

Wow, this brings back unpleasant memories.....

Just don't do what I did. Always maintain contact with each other. Think about it this way. If you were close enough to be boyfriend and girlfriend, you are definitly close enough to be bestest friends!!!

Of course, I totally lack experience in this area. Sorry if i cant be more of a help :-\.

I remember hearing this saying somewhere so..here it is.
"If two people who were once in love, can remain friends then they were never in love in the first place, or still are."

I am not going to say anything about this topic, and the only reason is because I don't know enough about Bob or Jinx's personal lives to make any suggestions or accusations. Having said that, I do want to make it known that I care, and it must suck ass.

Why did she break up with you ? What were her reasons ?

..Duh. That's why I said it, smacktard.

I shouldn't even bother posting anymore because people try to catch each other on mistakes and end up making themselves look stupid. Actually, that's fun.

Here's the lowdown, Bob. Pay close attention. I refrained from posting in this thread previously, because I hate you and any advice I can give will involve razors or cyanide. I don't consider these posts to be "on topic" so I'm still refraining.

And you are a red loving douche. Go back to mainland China.

Look no one needs to say anything about suicide or shit like that...that's really low...and when someone tells their x that's what they're about to do just to get them back...that's low too...just because you don't like him doesn't mean you need to be a prick... I don't care if it was a warning not to ask you for advice, just don't post...

I'm being factitious, cry about it.

His woman didn't give him any in first place.

It looks to me that has grown out of their relationship, when they went different ways to go to college she probably met some people and changed everythign she stood for before. That "im not having sex 'til I married" is probably gone too...

It's hard to stop feeling that way about a person if you still talk to her often, I've bene in similar situation before and the best thing I have found works best is to not see/talk to her for awhile until you feel comfortable being by yourself. Also keeping busy to keep the mind from thinking of her works good too.

You probably shouldn't of told him that his ex is probably out there humping people. o_O

I doubt she is.

I remember the going to college thread, and I all but predicted this would be the outcome after the first year. People don't tend to take my advice to heart. They all think they are the exception or something... Shit happens.

Plain and simple.

Shit happens.

just another college thingie... college always break up high school couple, i see it too often.

In seriousness, I'm sorry that you're having problems, Chris. But I can only offer you one piece of advice.

Go swimming, it helps.

Yup, shit happens. The only real advice to give that is sure to help it just try you're damndest to keep your head up, life ain't always easy but just staying on top, even when it hurts will make you a better person in the end.

Yep it's hard as hell, my girlfriend just move back to japan I am thinking to move there dammm... which will be never going to happen.

LOOK I'M NOT HAVING SEX DAMN...IF YOU ONLY KNEW...IF YOU ONLY FUCKING KNEW...The things I want to have in life need for me not to be in a serious relationship...Chris is the only guy I ever loved...I don't even know what love is, I just know about this one feeling I have for this one person...look I still love Chris honestly! but I have to be an adult (that of which most of you are not...) I have to be able to cut this off and go one with what I want in life...and if it were ment to be then we'll find eachother again and life will be good...but I've missed out of four of the best years of my life and I want to have fun....god I'm just ranting, but this really pisses me off...not Chris, but the dumbass remarks about me...Sleeping w/ someone else!! wtf...Thanks Titus for not thinking I'm a slut now! wow...fuck you guys...

Wow. You should just ignore them. I'd think Bob didn't express the reasons this all happened for a reason... Oh well.

Good luck to both of you.

Oh, and I don't think you missed the 4 best years of your life. The best years of your life is ahead of you, IMO. You will learn more over those 4 years than in the previous 18 or 19.

Relax, jeez. I never said you WERE I said you MAY, I mean anything is a possibility. Sorry, I didn't know saying that you could be having sex would offend you.

if you saying that you missing your life being with the man you love.. then i don't know how much you love him.