Fuck fate.
 

I use the word fate as a loose guideline of course, because I don't believe in it, at least not in the sense that most people use it in. In this case, I just mean the way things turned out, not the way they were destined to turn out.

Enough of that blah.

Anyways, there was this girl that I was head over heels madly in love with last December, but she just wanted to be friends. She could be my twin, we are that similar... I love hanging out with her and everything, that fact that she is beautiful on the outside doesn't come close to her inner beauty. Basically, she is the coolest girl that I know, but it didn't work out.

So, there is this guy. He was my friend and was a pretty cool, humble guy, but all of a sudden he became a stuck up jackass who thinks he knows everything and doesn't mind insulting someone and then coming back with "jeez man, take a joke". He is incredibly preppy, the fucker wore (gosu preppy clothes) to school every day, it's like sick. Mind you, I go to an all guys school in Cincy, but that is really common here, doesn't mean I am a rich fuck, it means I got a scholarship and financial aid, and its not like I don't lay the mack down on girls every weekend, or at least hang out with girls (for those of you who dont understand the concept of connection with females that don't go to your school). Everything about this kid, I loathe, except he is a decent guy sometimes and I still consider him an acquaitance. Basically he is the least cool girl I know.

Well a week after the whole thing fell out with that girl and me, he instantly gets with her. It made no sense. He is a douche, she is fuckin' 1337 cool. They fight alot, and in public. And other than that, all they do is just sit around and make out all the time, it disgusts me. I have quality conversations with this girl all the time, and I would give a limb just to be with her. Is it pathetic that almost a half year after this whole ordeal, I still am not over it?

Heh, either that was a typo or you think really lowly of him.

I'm in something like the same situation now and I'll agree with you, it sucks massive amounts of dick. Really I think the best thing to do is try to get over it, rather than being stuck up on it for any longer. Oh, and if you don't want to give up yet, try to call him out everytime he starts acting like a prick. At least you may get them to split up and give yourself a chance.

There is nothing odd about having strong feelings for someone, and not letting them die. I've been in and out of at least 5 relationships, 2 of which were pretty serious and long over the last 4 years, and I still always come back to one. We just have this awesome connection, but the circumstances would never permit.

Point being, love lasts, and will always last. Nothing odd about that.

Yeah, but it's pretty damn painful when it's not returned. "Love you, but I am not in love with you"... Fuck that cliche.

Yeah, nothing worse... Shit seems to go right when you least expect it, and don't want it though. No worries..

Just forget about it, I must be really cynical and apathetic or something, but I can just ignore things like that. You have to try also!

Juicy Juice helps.

Hell man, some girls I've hooked up with 2 or 3 years ago I still hate to see with other guys. It's not that I'm still madly in love with them. I've moved on, and am very happy with my love life. But it might be something inside of me sparking a bit of jealousy, or maybe a thought of what where we would have been if things didn't end that way, but like Titus said, love never dies. As long as you have memories, you'll think about it. So just move on and find someone new.

And on a side note. Am I the only one who thinks that there are way too many love threads these days? This isn't fucking govteen. It's a fucking-click-your-mouse-and-kill-stuff forum.

It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.

That has given me an excellent idea. I must contemplate and put it in forum suggestions soon..

"General Conversation"

gen·er·al ( P ) Pronunciation Key (jnr-l)
adj.
Concerned with, applicable to, or affecting the whole or every member of a class or category: “subduing all her impressions as a woman, to something more general” (Virginia Woolf).

con·ver·sa·tion ( P ) Pronunciation Key (knvr-sshn)
n.

The spoken exchange of thoughts, opinions, and feelings; talk.

When I go to sleep at night, I usually end up thinking about her sometime (I take a long ass time to fall asleep), and when I do, my whole body quivers.

Edit- The thing is, she truly doesn't wanna mess up our friendship. Normally, that is a crock of horseshit, but she has quite a history of ended frienships after relationships... and that is pretty well known amongst my friends.

Thanks for explaining to me what those two brain-buster words meant. I had no idea at all.

It's still pointless to share your life with us "e-goons," though.

Uhm, fuck off, whitey.

I'm an E-Thug 4 lif3.

Good advice sometimes comes out of here. Or at least people that can relate.

And I'm Parappa the Rapper.

Can I have your autograph?

I mean, shoot you in the face?

Pointing out how simple two words are that are that you so badly misconstrued does not help your case.

No, but you can shoot this dude in the face...

http://www.papersoup.com/archives/mi...ort/retard.jpg

Parappa was 1337, but Um Jamma Lammy was 2668er.

No chance in hell, man. Um Jamma Lammy was lame. Parappa was the hotness though.

This is probably gonna be moved to chat unless you guys get it back on topic.

Not the character, the game. I hated the Parappa game... probably because I sucked at it though. With Um Jamma Lammy you could always have fun, no matter how shitty you were at it.

I too hate fate. That's why, whenever fate tries to front, I just give fate a swift whaboing to the cajoles.

I am in a pretty similiar situation as you, except I have been sitting through it for months. A girl and I are like best friends and she is with an asshole boy friend that she complains about constantly and I opened up and told her how i feel and everything and she said she feels the same but she continues to go out with this dickhead!! He is such an asshole to her and if I ever met him i would punch him in the face. I hate the man for treating her like that especially when I know that I care the world about her and he is a jerkoff to her.

They want you to feel sorry for them, it's in their DNA.

*WHABOOOOOIIIIIIIIIIINNNNNNNGGGGGGGG!!!!!!!!!!!!!*

Timmay, what do you mean "except that you are in it for months"? I have been in this situation for 6 months. But yeah, people don't make sense.

penny....I bet that because all those *deep & thoughtful* conversations you have with her she put you in friend zone.....sometimes girl dont need all that deep shit.

Well fuck it all.

Some girls are just attracted to that kind of guy...you should feel flattered that she doesn't want to hurt your friendship so she doesn't go out w/ you...I've been there, I wanted to go out w/ my bestfriend and he didn't want to hurt our friendship by going out so we didn't :)...

I honestly wish I knew how the female mind worked, Penny. 95% of the time it doesn't make any fucking sense. Not much to do except hope I guess. Oh, and shoot the guy in the nuts and then the face.

All you gotta do is watch all the chickflicks and slowly mold yourself into one of those guys :) *sigh* Pretty Women :D

It gets easier as you get older, trust me. The beginning games drop off, and wants and needs become more than obvious. That is definitely one thing I don't miss about high school..

Please tell me you're kidding..

Maybe I should go to Hollywood Boulevard, pick up a prostitute, and buy her love? Is that what you are trying to convey Jinx?

I'd have to beat my own ass.

Hm, that actually may be quite interesting to see.

It would likely be comparable to a similar scene in "Liar Liar"...

But, since I would be rendered physically incompetent by being a chick-flick actor wannabe, I'd be reduced to flailing away at myself with limp wrists.

That and telling yourself you look fat in those pants.

That's the part that hurts...

I'm sure the years of anorexia that follow it aren't too pleasant either.