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Another Era ended...
Vollstrecker has now rejoined the ranks of Single men.
I broke up with Abby Friday night, after realizing that I didn't love her... the way I should, I guess. She's been more of a good friend to me than a girlfriend for some time, and I was too blind to see it. After that realization, I decided she deserved better than what I was giving her and told her so... It's better this way, rather than dragging it out and making life harder for both of us that way. Discuss, I guess. |
:( how long was the relationship.
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Exactly 4 years, 2 months, and 2 days.
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Holy hell, thats a long time. I hope you both get through it, though it doesn't sound like either of you are too hurt? Then again, your on the prowl again.
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I'm not manically depressed no, but she was rather attached to me...
Needless to say, I feel like the world's biggest asshole. |
Well hopefully you guys can work it out, and possibly stay friends? I'm not sure exactly what your wanting to do, but being single has no limits.
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Sorry to hear it, though you probably did the best thing you could have in that situation. Nonetheless, welcome to our ranks. I'm sure you'll grow to love it. Probably not but I have to be optimistic once in awhile I suppose.
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Woot,Welcome welcome, so what day we going to strip club...??? That's what we need, wait.. how many underage are here?
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Well, that's certainly ill news, Voll, but you've gotta do what you've gotta do. In my opinion, it's better to have pre-emptively made this decision rather than dragging it out and causing more internal damage in the process. I've been to that place, and the amount of harm it can cause is a lot worse than you can imagine.
And who knows what could happen in the future? It's better to leave future possiblities open rather than burn those bridges by way of procrastination. Going about the breakup as you have shows that you have her best interests in mind, and by protecting her from possible harm, you keep the relationship between the two of you intact. Had you held off, you would have only been thinking of yourself, and it would have done more harm in the long run. Anyway, good luck. |
Give me six months =.=
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Give me a fake ID and I'll pull it off just fine.
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Wow, your joke detector is WAY the fuck off.
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Sorry to hear that, but at least you did it for the right reasons. I don't know if it is better to break it off for that reason or to have it caused by cheating or something. On the one hand, you are both friends, but the break-up, I'm sure, is extremely tough for her to handle right now. On the other, if you had a heated arguement and ended it, at least anger would take the place of depression, and moving on would be easier for both of you. That, and there is always the possiblity of make-up sex. ;)
Either way, good luck in the future. |
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Best idea all day. |
Somebody typed sex and slaynish came running. :(
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It was bound to happen.
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We're back together already...
I don't trust my judgement right now, considering all the time I spent thinking about that was at work. I've been getting ~6 hours of sleep a night (at most, even less oftentimes), been depressed at work (when I'm there 10+ hours a day), and everything has been fucking up around me. I also suspect I have a personality disorder that I was unaware of (Sov thinks I might be bipolar)... Anyway, yeah. I'm considering myself "Judgement Impaired" until I get off this shitpile of a job, and get back to normal. Thanks for your support though, guys.
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Well I guess it's a good thing that your back together. Maybe it'll help things return to normal.
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That's almost the same thing Jinx and I went through... I think we're better for each other now than ever before. Maybe you'll both realize what you have, and your relationship will develop further than you've seen it recently.
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It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.
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Disorder | Rating
Paranoid: Very High Schizoid: Moderate Schizotypal: High Antisocial: High Borderline: Very High Histrionic: High Narcissistic: High Avoidant: Very High Dependent: Very High Obsessive-Compulsive: High |
It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.
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Indeed, indeed. :scatter:
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Disorder | Rating
Paranoid: High Schizoid: High Schizotypal: Moderate Antisocial: Moderate Borderline: Moderate Histrionic: Low Narcissistic: Moderate Avoidant: High Dependent: Moderate Obsessive-Compulsive: High Meh. |
Just be true to yourself, and you should be fine. All that bi-polor stuff is in your HEAD! And if the relationship goes sour, maybe you guys should make a vow NOW that if it DOES go sour, just keep the friendship the same. Sure it won't be, but then that gives the chance of LOVE again!
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Disorder | Rating
Paranoid: Low Schizoid: Low Schizotypal: Low Antisocial: Low Borderline: Low Histrionic: Low Narcissistic: Low Avoidant: Low Dependent: Low Obsessive-Compulsive: Low URL of the test: http://www.4degreez.com/misc/persona...sorder_test.mv URL for more info: http://www.4degreez.com/misc/disorder_information2.html No lies either, this is honest to God true. |
Disorder | Rating
Paranoid: Low Schizoid: Low Schizotypal: Low Antisocial: Low Borderline: Low Histrionic: Low Narcissistic: Moderate Avoidant: Low Dependent: Low Obsessive-Compulsive: Low |
wow nice HOH and thantos mine is crazy
Paranoid: Very High Schizoid: Very High Schizotypal: Very High Antisocial: High Borderline: Low Histrionic: High Narcissistic: High Avoidant: Low Dependent: High Obsessive-Compulsive: Moderate |
I'm not sure how they can say I'm obsessive compulsive.
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lol im crazy but not THAT crazy sheesh i cant believe they called me paranoid..
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I think every relationship need a timeout now or later, to show how much each is important to other.
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I've been so stressed and whatnot, I didn't know which way was up, you know? I think the stress is worsening any personality disorders I have.
On the odd side, I was perfectly fine and relaxed today, rather than being all worked up over nothing. I think I might need to see a psychiatrist at some point. |
Disorder | Rating
Paranoid: Low Schizoid: Low Schizotypal: Low Antisocial: Low Borderline: Low Histrionic: Low Narcissistic: Low Avoidant: Low Dependent: Low Obsessive-Compulsive: Moderate URL of the test: http://www.4degreez.com/misc/persona...sorder_test.mv URL for more info: http://www.4degreez.com/misc/disorder_information2.html I'd have to agree with that definitely. I know I have a slight case of OCD, but only with certain things. |
Hah! So far, I'm the most normal person here.
Sheesh.. freaks.... |
my brother took it and hes like the biggest jackass of my family and hes totally crazy
Disorder | Rating Paranoid: Low Schizoid: Low Schizotypal: Low Antisocial: Low Borderline: Low Histrionic: Low Narcissistic: Low Avoidant: Low Dependent: Low Obsessive-Compulsive: Low URL of the test: http://www.4degreez.com/misc/persona...sorder_test.mv URL for more info: http://www.4degreez.com/misc/disorder_information2.html |
Disorder | Rating
Paranoid: Moderate Schizoid: Moderate Schizotypal: High Antisocial: Low Borderline: Moderate Histrionic: Low Narcissistic: High Avoidant: High Dependent: Moderate Obsessive-Compulsive: Moderate URL of the test: http://www.4degreez.com/misc/persona...sorder_test.mv URL for more info: http://www.4degreez.com/misc/disorder_information2.html wow thats pretty messed up. i thought i would be low on most of that stuff, but im pretty fucked up. anyways, it all be cool. |
Eh, I'm sure most of you aren't as bad as that may seem.
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Heh.
I can range a lot, actually. My music is mainly what keeps me consistent online. I don't think I have Multiple Personalities though, so I'm not utterly messed up. |
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