First date... Ever!?!?!?
 

So... Tonight I am going on my first date ever. Yeah I know kinda sad. Well anyway... I was looking at random screen names on aim from around my area and I was messaging the girls askin for boobie pix and being an asshole because to tell you the truth... I was bored. And I mean the kinda of bored where drinking rat poison would be more entertaining than what was currently happening. So I come across this girl who I just cant seem to get to block me no matter what I do. So I go into a chat with her friends and I am an asshole to everyone in there. Still no luck. So I give up and just start talking to her. It turns out she is really cool and thinks I'm funny as hell. Huh... Well so long story short. I asked her out just messin around and she said yes. She lives 10 mins away from me and tonight I'm taking her out to the movies. I talked to her on the phone for a little bit after all the underaged drunken assholes left my house (We had a party.) and I dunno. There is just something special about her. She laughs and that makes me happy. Well anyway, I still can't believe this is happening becasue its really weird =/ But whatever. We will see how it goes tonight.
Wish me luck.

Good luck man!!

Hope all goes well.

Crazy. Can't wait to hear the after report.

First ever? Good luck!

Best of luck.

Kind of odd, but good luck man! Have fun!

NO NO NO NO NO!


Never go to the movies on a first date........you can't talk to her, she wont let you get touchy because she just met you, and if the movie sucked then that will set the mood for the rest of the date!

and that seems a lil bit weird ...i hope you got full body pics..........most girls dont usually just say yes to meet with a stranger from teh intaRweb!

take her to get some coffee and walk around.......oh and btw, MAKE HER PAY for her ticket.......you dont owe her shit so why should you be paying?

Just a few pointers...hope she shows up in the least =/

Don't listen to this fool.

Ya I've "gone" on a couple dates w/ girls I met on the net. And by gone I mean I went to meet one and ended up turning around, and the second one she recognized me before I could turn around, so I went into the movie w/ her then before it started told her I was getting some snacks and left. Hahaha it was probably the worst thing I've done to some1 morally.

Well I didn't really mean don't listen to him about girls you meet on the net. His other suggestions are stupid.

He failed at killing himself. What the hell do you expect?


Good luck with that date.

Wrong person there sport. That was PureRebel, I think...
definatly not H_K.

Whoops. I get dumbasses mixed up on this forum...

I think he's right about the movies thing. (Though I am taking this girl out on Monday, and the only thing I can think to do is a movie... Hopefully I'll spot some coffee house or something on the way, and we can change plans.)

Movies are very easy and very good dates. You don't have to say much so you don't have to worry about saying something stupid. Comedy movies are good for first dates, since you'll be laughing together and she'll be having fun, unless it's a horrible comedy and then you can just laugh with her at how stupid the movie was. If you've already dated a few times then you can go to a romance/comedy or horror movie, since those are always winners. Romance/comedies and pure chick-flicks are great, girls always love them, I know this because Nikki is always melty and romantic when we watch them, and she's all over me when it's over. Horror movies are good too because she'll be clinging onto you during the really scary parts.

Basically, you can't really mess up a movie date, so they are always good.

Ya, but you can't really get to know her and have interaction unless you have some sort of follow up after the movie.

Actually, despite having "gone out" with my ex, I've never had a real date either O.o

Coffee houses are always good for follow-ups after the movie or before. There is one right across from the theatre where I live.

Ya, but there soo cliche, and I don't drink coffee so what do I "do" while we're conversating? She has a coffee to keep her occupied, I get what a hot chocolate.

LOL that redminds me of my gf and I starting dating... when we started had hardly anythign to say so ya we went to movies and shit .... now look at us a kid ehh broken up but w/e shes still cool no child support ^_^

Haha, your first name is Kelly....

So is mine.

You got a fucking problem with it?

Try something new. Try an escamocha. If nothing else, ya, get a hot chocolate. You don't go to a coffee shop for the coffee (unless you get it to go). You go for the atmosphere and the chance to sit and talk.

The more cozy the place, the better. If there are couches, go for that.

Haha when I read that, I thoght to myself "I wonder what KA is gonna say" then I looked down..


Owned

You should dump the whole "girl" thing and turn gay.

They don't call me King because I wear a crown(well I don't...)

How'd it go Prox? Which film did you see?

Did you get to see tittays?

yes but in this case you already know the girl, and know that she wants to be with you....


In the first date with someone u have never met, never go to the movies......go do something, or just relax and chat. NEVER MOVIES

My first date with one girl that I didn't know at all was movies and mall, and it turned into a 16 month relationship. Movies can work, but do something else as well so that you actually have time to talk and get to know her.

good luck dude hope all goes well. movies are good for first dates cause u dont have to say alot, but thats also the downfall of them. make sure u at least go out after and offer to pay. They love that shit

Now that's one place a lot of people will debate with you. I've been told by numerous people that, contrary to popular belief, not paying for things on a date is a good thing to do. I can't explain the logic or testify to whether it actually works, as I've never tried it, but like I said, I heard it from more than just a handful of people.

Maybe when people pay a lot for things on a date the other half will become used to having things bought for them and end up expecting it during the relationship. Then when the "payee" hasn't the cash, the relationship will begin to break up as the "non-payee" starts wondering why they aren't having things bought for them - "You don't love me any more!"

Just a horribly random guestimate there. Don't quote me on it.

I dunno, I'm a big sucker for chivalry. I always offer to pay when I'm on a date, at least if I'm interested in the girl. If I'm just out with a friend we split it.

It all depends on the girl, some girls get annoyed when guys open doors for them and pay for stuff and things like that, I'm lucky enough to have one that doesn't mind me being a gentleman, because I am one.

so in conclusion- girls suck when it comes to dating. Cause us guys can never figure them out. Anyways, i like to offer just so its out on the table (to pay). If they let me, then id be happy to pay, if not idont mind pocketing the extra cash

Girls pay for me all the time =/

Is kind of like a 50:50 thing......lets say if we go to dinner, I'll pay, then we go to movies, they'll pay. I dont tell them to pay either, they usually offer to.

This should be in Life Discussion

Edited by Sovereign

Agreed. Moved.

Well... Hehe... The date went great. We got some pizza and just talked and laughed (I stole a large piece of cheese she dropped when getting a piece and she still wont let me forget it...) Then we went to see wedding crashers which is pretty darn funny. We sat in one of those loveseat type chairs. The ones that are like 2 chairs in one. I don't know but it was wonderful. I couldn't breathe during one part of the movie and she was laughing and patting my back. By the way, she has the cutest nose that crinkles up when she laughs. Then when we got back to the house we just hung out in the back yard abit. She mentioned she liked lakes so we walked to a large pond/lake near by. We just laid there and looked up at the stars and talked. On the walk back home we were holding hands (very cold hands) and still talking. Well she had to get going it was 11:30. She said she wanted to leave by 11:15... So we hugged and said goodbye (no kiss and im ok with that) We are currently talking online right now and earlier we were on the phone. I really like this girl, she is into the same bands as me and same movies and she is really really cute. We are gonna go out again some time, whenever she wants I guess.

So all in all it was a great night. I am feeling much better about myself lately and I don't know if it is because of her or just a coincidence.

EDIT: I paid for it all. =P

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