Weekends....
 

Post about your crazy weekends.....


This last weekend.

I went out Friday night with one of my girlfriends after Kaneda and i had an argument (about literally NOTHING) and i decided i wanted to get drunk. We go to one bar, they won't let me in. NEVER HAPPENED BEFORE THAT NIGHT. pissed me off. Then one of my friends meets up with us, we go down town to a different club and the line is rediculous. Then my girlfriend says "oh, yea...I know someone at GVR that has all kinds of hook ups"...so we drive the 25 mins BACK to where we originally came from. Go to this bar where he friend was (which was an irish pub) and the music sucked and everyone was jumping and screaming. Eh, I got 3 drinks out of that one though. Then the guy that came to meet up with us and I walk around while my female friend went to "powder her nose". We find a bar with regular clubbing music and decide to chill in there for a while. Got 3 more drinks in that bar. THEN, we decide to go to a real club where we can dance. My guy friend had another one of his friends meet up with him there and we went to one club just in time for it to close (WTF?!?!...VEGAS!) so then we go to the casino across the way and find a club to get into. I got in right away and the guys had to wait. Got another 2 drinks and danced a lot...lost track of time. Got home at 6 am to find the doors locked and no keys in my "purse". Then I saw kaneda and the baby awake inside so i knocked on the door and he let me in. Slept until about 11...while he was txting the guy that ended up going. Just great. :/. Then on saturday I went to lunch with the girl i went out with, had a great time, even though kaneda was PISSED AS HELL at me, and i was very hung over. Then yesterday I laid low and got some laundry done. Back at work today. Blah.

your turn:eek:

Last weekend was pretty tight. Got into a town around 3 PM, and went and bought a new water pipe. After that, went to a coffee shop with a couple of good friends until 5, and then found myself over at a friend of a friend's apartment. Had 3 Killian's Irish Red and a few shots of cheap whiskey, and then around 8ish got picked up by my best friend. We rocked out to Muse's Black Holes and Revelations on the way to my hometown. Proceeded to find a bag, but nothing would turn up. Around midnight a girl friend came over to his house and we hot boxed 4 bongs in his car while blaring music. Next day Was kind of boring, saw Simpsons movie, and then proceeded to get drunk. Had a 40 oz. of Mickey's, a 24 oz. of Corona, and 6 or 7 miller lights. Then Arkantis came over with nitrous and I had quite a bit of that. The next day I had to go to BK to get his keys to retrieve my shoes (left them in his room, silly drunk). After that took an hour hike and then shot a round of golf. When I got back into town, I saw Hot Rod and then met up with Arkantis and another friend. We went to Jackpot (casino) from Midnight - 3 am, and it was a blast. As he drove off after dropping us off, I got my foot run over by the back tire. Yay, and it's only happened when he or his brother are driving. Crashed from 4-9am, and then finally got up and went to a pizza buffet. All in all, a good weekend, aside from getting a bag that I was promised.

So how's that family life going for ya, Klo? ;)

L M A O


I hope my girl wouldn't ever act like that. I mean even if we did have an argument, doesn't mean she should get to go out and get shitfaced, especially if she had a kid...

HAHA

Just because I have baby doens't mean I can't get shitfaced every now and then. jeez. Kaneda went to a concert last night with a group of his buddies from work. Don't see the big deal. I'm still a good mom, your fucking retarded.

Wtf? I'm not dissing you chillout, it's because you went out with some guys and got shitfaced... That and going to a concert are two totally different thigns.

I went with a girl. and told a guy friend where we were going. he decided he wanted to come...and? he's in a relationship, and im engaged. duh?!?

seemed asshol-ish to me.

Oh sorry nawh. It sounded more like you went out with your friend and a group of guys, nevermind I suppose.

Nope. and all night the guys were my "tally-ers" for how many other guys i got drinks from. Wholesome fun.

You sound like a terribly irresponsible mother. You are too young and immature to shoulder this responsibility. I hope your kid doesn't become another fuckup in American society...

Tell me how you would consider me a bad mother...
Your parents NEVER went out?!?! And if they didn't were they the best? honostly....just because I'm young doesn't mean anything...I watch a couples kids once every other week or so and they go out and come get them at like 3 in the morning but it doesn't mean they're bad people. AND she was safe at home with her dad. When I got home I slept for a few hours then took her out to lunch with a friend of mine, came back and cleaned house and played with her while Kaneda went to work. Then on sunday I did the laundry, took her to a park...played with her at home, practiced her walking...then we do the dinner, bed and bath scene around 7. After that I clean a little more and wait for Kaneda to get home. Then I start with monday, getting up by 5 so i can leave by 6 to get her to my parents house and get to work...work till 330, pick her up and start all over. So fuck off, I'd love to see you or whoever the fuck you end up with be any better of a parent. I'm sick of the sterotype of young parents not being responsible...

A fuck up in society is a mom that drinks EVERY NIGHT and doesn't do anything with their child/ren and leaves them with whoever while they party it up. (i've known people that will have known me for like a week and ask me if their kids could stay over that Friday night). I would NEVER do that. Only way I go out is if Kaneda or one of my VERY good friends that I know most everything about is with her. AND all those people have been 25-35 years old, so FUCK OFF.

Well, I gotta back Kaneda on this one. I'd be pissed if I had an argument and my girl went out and got plastered while hanging out with some dude. Just because he's in a relationship and you're engadged doesn't mean something couldn not happen. A lot of people in relationships cheat (as you personally know =P). That's just a guy's perspective.

I envy yall, I work from friday evening to sunday evening sometimes Monday evening... I don't get to have crazy weekends really... Lucky ppl^^

I was planning on going out on Saturday with this girlfriend of mine anyways.

And out "argument" consisted of...
If you didn't need money I'd be out. I'm sick of you.
Why you ask? Because HE didn't get to go to the gym 3 times that week. WTF?!?!?! I don't get to go to the gym a lot because he wants to therefore he won't pick up the baby etc. ITS BULLSTHIT.

3 hours later (after I'd been holding back tears and dealing with it at work):
"that wasn't fair, I love you..."

NOW, imo if something HAD happened (even though it didn't...) I think it would have been semi-justified.

That's how I seen it too o_O

But I was planning on going out that weekend anways?!?!
AND the guy i went out with knows im with kaneda...asked me if i would ever cheat, and i said no...it was in a txt that kaneda read. You don't let your gf have guy friends?!? I appreciate kaneda more when I talk to guys sometimes...he's the only one so far that I am on the same page with. I love HIM, and he should be confident in that.

Yeah but that's just our perspective, as GUYS.

Of course my girlfriend can have guy friends, there's nothing wrong with that. But for one, if they ask if SHE would ever cheat, that's a red flag. And then she decides to go out and get shitfaced with them, that'd be another red flag, for me atleast.


Just another reason I want to wait some time before I have kids...

And I wasn't planning on meeting up with him..just told him where I was going and casually invited him.

He asked if i would cheat prolly to see my character. Kaneda had me ask him if he would and he said no as well?!?

Damn he's suspicious then.. He probably figures you guys have been messing around, just don't be too upset when you find out he's done something... Doesn't sound like there's a lot of trust there..

Eh, he has no reason to not trust me. And i've made the decision to trust him again...?

I see where he could be upset, but if i wanted something else, i'd have it and leave him...just because HE has taken up an opportunity doesn't mean I would.

I almost read that as 'he has no reason to trust me' Ha. Sounds to me like Kaneda had a normal guy reaction.

Yea, I'd have been pissed if I saw that shit on my girl's phone. If that guy replied "no" it was probably because you told him "no" first. A guy doesn't ask a girl that question unless he's been her best friend for 10 years and she's like his sister and just having innocent conversation or he's trying to get in her pants. It doesn't seem like he's brother-like material to you so I'd say the latter. If my girl went out drinking with a guy who wasn't gay I'd have been pretty jealous too.

A lot of experts debate on what effects members of the opposite sex being friends with in a relationship have. Pretty much -- if you feel like you have a special relationship with a guy that's not your boyfriend then that can lead to affairs. Soon you'll feel like "he knows me so well and he's so nice to me ...if I got with him he'd treat me better" and bullshit like that if you and Kaneda have a hard time =P. I've seen it happen a thousand times.

That's what makes TV shows dramatic.

Hit the nail on the head.

I disagree, but hey, you guys obviously don't have trust in women. Neither do i, but i know myself and I wouldn't do that, especailly in my situation.

Well hopefully you guys can work out your little problems, it'd be much better for the both of you in the long run....


Me and my girl have planned already that if we're going to even go out anywhere we'd end up going with each other.

Yea, and in a few mins i could get a txt saying he wants to move out...life changes, and if i get the desire to "get" with anyone else kaneda and i will work something else out.

See, I feel that if I have a kid, I have something extra to make the relationship work out, not just blow it off. I NEVER want my kid to have Two moms, or a step-mom, I know lots of people that have them and none of them can stand their step-whatevers. I was fortunate enough to have both parents around for the most part, and they have been good with each other from day one.

I'm not entirely a traditionalist but I think that if my girl wanted to go out, drink, and dance then I better be with her or she better be dancing with her girlfriends and not random guys. Otherwise that relationship probably would not last too long. It's asking for trouble and it's a nice red flag. Whether or not you -know- you're going to do something, it's not right for you to go out and do that when it bothers your signifigant other with GOOD REASON.

You're with the guy that cheated on you. That sucks. But if you want a relationship to work you can't hold grudges because that's not how a relationship should be. You do what you want and enjoy the arguments that ensue because I'll have to agree with Kaneda on this one. He can be quite a dick but he has very sound reasoning for this. Relationships involve comprimises and you know you can do something fun that doesn't have to involve the company of some dumbass calling you and asking you if you'd cheat or not ...haha.

Ok, you know such little about the situation. I would LOVE to have Kaneda come out with me. He hates the club scene unless he's with someone else. he's never even tried to go w.me, and believe me I have BEGGED him! It's not a random guy, and he knows i have boundries and limits. Yes dance, No grabbing or other activities.

You don't know what our conversation was about and we were talking about relationships going wrong when that came up.

AND, it seems to me that you guys are forgetting a VERY important part to this story, Kaneda told me he wanted to move out and end it earlier that day...and i STILL didn't fuck someone else. Kaneda hasn't even argued a point here so how are you with him? Yea, he was upset when he found out a guy ended up coming...but he's gone to softball-drinks with girls he works with, where's the difference, honostly?

This thread was supposed to be about weekends. Kaneda and I already talked about what happened and everything.

Well, we're agreeing with Kaneda on the being suspicious. Not the whole threatening to move out.

Women are just as jealous and suspicious of men with female friends, it's the jealous nature of the beast.

Slightly off topic, but I hope you mention to hopeful guys that you're involved if they go to buy you a drink. Women who are involved and go to the bar to sponge drinks off the hopeful single guys rank only slightly better than outright thieves in my book.

Agree with that :) Ahaha.


Sounds like you and Kaneda are going to end up sharing custody ..

You guys have a fucked up relationship x_X.

Kaneda just goes back and forth with what he wants from life (if you couldn't tell all along...). Our relationship is healthy otherwise. Our arguments are minor and stupid usually.

Of course I tell people im involved. There are rules when getting drinks. 1-you talk to who bought you a drink for at least half your drink. 2- You NEVER ask for a drink. 3- you (i) talk about (kaneda) at least %25 of the time.

Haha if my girl went clubbing w/o me I'd kick her to the curb faster than her pants drop when I come over.



PS: I still get a crack out of the fact that kaneda was busted because of this forum.

PSS: It's still kinda wrong to have other guys buying you drinks......you know they didn't buy it to hear all about your fiance you know?

Alcohol from guys = getting in your pants. If you're too oblivious and stupid to see that then you either want to cheat or really are a dumbass.

You obviously have never been in the "getting drinks situation". And if a guy thinks he's gonna get laid that's his problem for being retarded.

People want people to socialize with, not just FUCK. you guys make me sick, and really need to grow up.

AND i already said, Kaneda won't go out with me, he doesn't like clubs.

You're talking with virgins about relationship advice/situations. What do you expect? Half of them don't have any idea what they're talking about (WillKill).

Definitely not a virgin. But I don't smoke pot or contract a new std a week either so I'm not quite in Thanatos's league. Thanatos, you like to put your wang where no man has not gone before. You're close to the epitome of shallowness and maybe one day you'll grow into a respectable person. Or die in a ditch. Either way works for me.