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I was wondering what you guys (that are single at least) would do in my situation tonight.

I am in Aruba and the past two nights in the casino i have noticed this really hot girl looking my way. Normally, i would go up to her and offer a drink, but we are both in intersting positions. I am with my entire family and she is with her friends and family as well. Tonight, i was going to go up to her, espeically after see looked my way, but for some reason, i totally chickened out. Normally, i am pretty smooth at this and never get flustered, but tonight was different. I was sober and she was with her entire family (mom and all).

My question here is if you guys would have gone up to her anyways, with friends and family there, and asked her out for a drink, or if you would be like me and chicken out. I am really pissed at myself because this has never happened to me before, and im not sure what to do.

Sidenote- I am here for just 1 more day. Would you go out tomorrow night and ask her out for a drink, or sit back and let it slide. Its not like im ever going to see her again, but she would be nice company for the night.

I think the advice given would be different if you were a well-established pimp, but as it is you have no bed cred.

Get laid. Ask her out. At worst, she says no. At best you get to park the beef bus in tuna town.

Make sure she doesn't have a penis.

Or the herps.

Or isn't from the internet

Tonight, the last night of my trip, i grew a pair of balls and went up to her. In front of her entire family, i asked if she would like to have a drink and spend sometime together. Her dad didnt like the idea, but she ended saying yes and we had a drink. The short of it is that we ended up having a really nice time together, and shared a very intimate kiss. Nothing more and nothing less. She lives in the states and i got her number, but i have a feeling that we wont see each other again. It was nice, she was a realy cool chick with alot of similar interests to my own. I do wish that we had more time together, bvecause i could see this getting a little more serious, but because i didnt pull the trigger early, cost me something good. Oh well, i guess thats how life goes sometimes.Hopefully, if it is in the cards, we will cross paths again someday.

When she was looking at me, I would have got her attention and motioned her to come over. I probably wouldn't have offered a drink in front of her dad lol. You got balls.

Hopefully you meet up again. Good luck.

You're probably better off this way, if things HAD got serious, you still probably wouldn't ever see each other again.

You meant to put this in the 'Lucid Dreams' thead, right?

That does take guts. At least you didn't ask her to crack the candy coating you had put on your balls the night before. Oh, and when she gave you her number, perfect time to say that you dropped your phone in the ocean. No strings attached then. Glad you had a good time though.