Conversation Disability
 

Ok, when I started university in September I was really jolly and enjoyed hanging out with everyone on my floor (standard accomdation) - everyone seemed to enjoy my company. But then I moved to En-suite accomodation and things were less social as there were only 4 other people in the building...and they stayed in their rooms most've the time - and after a while and went back to my original accomdation to hang out with peeps there but I felt different around them (and still do) - the 'social' buzz I got out of it was absent and I found myself really quiet around them...also feel as if not part of the group anymore....don't know what or why this good be?

Thanks :-)

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Things and people change. Perhaps they didn't approve of the people you were hanging with or maybe you caught them at an off time? Did you do anything that could have possibly put them off? I guess there's limitless scenarios that could produce such a result.

Just say 'no' to drugs.

I wouldn't worry about. As long as people aren't completely nudging you out of their "circle" or "fave fives" then you shouldn't have anything to worry about. I'd just pick whomever one person/persons I get along with the most and chill with them on a majority.

Without making a conscious effort to spend enough time with friends, you lose that sense of "closeness." All of my closest friends back in college were people I hung with on a daily basis.