'11%ll ring'
two of them, if you have cham gaze use 2x 11%ll rings with mods

ias depends on which skill(s) you use
with 20%iasgloves+40ias ith+25% bvalor=85% ias
with Slvl 10+BoS you should be fine in terms of ias

for an amulet try getting something with a few of these mods or corruption heart (very good for assassins...)

+2 asn skill
4%LifeLeech
20 dexterity
15+strength
30% all resists

boots for resists, use soulspurs//rune slippers
for damage//hp use war travlers

for belt obviously, perfect string of ears

for gloves try getting a pair with some/most of these mods

20% Ias
6%life leech
+2 martial art skills
10% crush blow
15 dexterity
9strength
20 hp
30%lightning resist
(any 3-4 of these will/would make exceptional asn gloves)

fhr : 63%

since you have valor (30%)
use 3x 10 max//12% fhr grand charms (sharp of balance)

to not get block locked try not to get hit, use mindblast or a trap (level 1 is even effective if your martial)
and use a shadow master/warrior to take hits, or to missle bug when you use dragon flight