you dont even HAVE to look good to get a date, i remember the time when i was talking to this girl, some other guy (who i know i look better, because i work out and he does not) while i was talking to her he (jon) starts making jokes and then she starts talking to him, so i was like what the mut, i was about to ask her out and he buds in and starts talking to her, oh well, i was laughing at his jokes also so no harm !! :-P