From the ppl who are still alive or also counting the ppl that are already dead?

Hmm from the ones alive it's my grandpa I think he's something like 79, I dont really know exactly because he lives in Egypt and we see him maybe once every 2 years. I do know for sure that my grandma is 68, she lives not far away from us. From the ppl that are dead it must be my grandma's aunt (if that counts ?) she was like 97, my mothers grandma was 87.