And that is exactly where my point was before. Just because you think God is a nonexistent entity, doesn't mean everyone else does. People that believe in God obviously have a different way of thinking than you do, and they believe that God has a plan for everyone. They aren't blaming him per say, they are simply asking why the God they worship is being benevolent, when they've grown up believing that He forgives all and is a kind, caring God.

Just like you cope with death, etc. by looking at scientific facts as a reason for it occurring, other people look at it as God's will for the reason. There really isn't a different, other than the fact that they rely on faith, and you on tangible, scientific data.