All I can say is MJ is a very great guy, and if he wants anonyimity then he damn well deserves it. Especially if it's going to jeopardize any current or future relationship. However, I hope he's being true to himself and not hiding his true self from his gf, because if so then that could hamper his happiness. Be with someone who will accept you for who you are. My gf's watching me type this (well, technically she's watching Hell's Kitchen, but she doesn't give a shit.)