well i dont know where your other thread is lol, but i think maybe this is better for you. you were in a long-term relationship and made yourself move on because you were kind of bitter and then kind of just found someone to fill a void or something. maybe it would be better for you to work on yourself, figure out like what you want in life, what you dont want in your next relationship, do things to keep yourself busy, focus on you and not become like depressed over what all's happened in the past few months. just get over it in your own time, dont make yourself move on because you're mad at your ex. if you didn't forgive her for what she did or even find out why she did what she did, you still may need closure, and you won't be able to move on. but this is all from a girl's point of view, what do i know right? lol :P

im sorry all this happened to you, you don't deserve that