I don't think you understand it from a guy's point of view Jessifer so let me put the shoe on the other foot. Let's pretend you and I are in a high school relationship, and I told you a story about a slutty girl I made out with one time when I was really drunk at a party(I say slutty girl because most all guys are slutty by nature). Now I call you up and tell you me and some of my buddies(you know, my friends you don't like) are gonna go hang out with this girl at my buddy's house. You wouldn't be uncomfortable with this at all?

I hate to say it, but I think grav is right, she's probably boyfriend shopping from the way you make it sound.