You do realize that being an asshole isn't the best way to get ahead in life, don't you? "Speak softly and carry a big stick" is the opposite of your life philosophy, and you're not going to garner any respect for it. You're behaving no better than a street thug that uses physical intimidation to get his way -- except your basis for superiority is even more abstract and asinine.

I am completely serious when I say that you should seek counseling to confront whatever issues you have as a result of your upbringing. Anyone that mentions they were reading at a college level at the age of 11 seriously needs a social readjustment. Even if you are somehow "superior" to others (a claim that I am highly distrustful of given your propensity for self-praise), there are few things more unappealing than someone full of himself.

I honestly feel if you were as insanely gifted as you believe, that with a universally applicable work-from-home-capable skillset such as programming you shouldn't be quite so... poor.