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It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.

heh...i think me and timmay have been through this 1

u get them back or get over them i guess...
keep talkin 2 em...stay close...hopefully theyll eventually turn around

welll..... one time while i was out of town, my girl friend went to a lakehouse with some of my friends, guys and girls, they all got drunk and she ends up getting naked with a girl.... what on earth do u say to that...... but anyways with your case has this person done it behind your back before?

It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.

ahh yes i guess, u cant ever have full trust in them again, its a good chance they will do it again if they did it once, it means they didnt truly love u, u will just have to move on, and yes i know IT REALLY SUCKS, but better to move on now wrather that getting hurt AGAIN later

Shinto there will be others in life. Others that are much better then she will ever be. She has shown her ability to cheat on you. Cheating is manipulating your emotions. Maybe she wasnt the right one for you after all.

Take it from me, i know how it feels to lose a girlfriend to another guy. It happened to me, and it hurt. Holy fuck it hurt. It drove me insain. Literally, i had mental breakdown after another. But i got thorugh it, with the help of kickass friends, and help from outside sources. You can do the same. Come on shinto, trust me when i say this, there WILL be others much bettter then dani, and others who WILL stay monogomous.

bullshit it doesnt mean they dont truly love you. You mean 2 tell me when some1 gets drunk and ends up in bed with some1 else they dont love u? NO...they were just drunk. Yes it will be hard 2 trust them again but they could come aruond...talk 2 her...tell her how u feel

or if u want just move on

who said anything about drunkeness??

im just throwin out an example

ahh i gotcha, but im not thinking that the person who cheated on shinto was drunk

You have a point mjordan, but she wasnt drunk....thats the problem. She did this to him while she was in the right state of mind.

He's mixing your story up with Shinto's... Well, you can't give her too many chances... has she done anything like this in the past?

but then cmon man...if a hot girl threw herself upon you and u were with some1 else it would be really hard not 2 do nething with the girl...

and that my friends IS just FUCKED up, but you could always see if she is truly sorry for what she did, cause she might truly care for u, maybe yall should just talk

welll..... one time while i was out of town, my girl friend went to a lakehouse with some of my friends, guys and girls, they all got drunk and she ends up getting naked with a girl.... what on earth do u say to that......

i say the more the merrier...go join them

If she cared, she wouldnt have cheated in teh first place. I mean she could still care, but not care enough to continue a good, steady, monogomous relationship. Im gonna go eat ill be back ina few.

Maybe it was a case of..............
































Date rape.

well that... would just be fucked up more... and shinto would have to kick some ass if that happened

well...thats not exactly cheating then...

yeah but i doubt thats what happened... and we are straying from the point, i think.... that for things to turn out the best , even though there is going to be no good alternative u should end the relationship so she doesnt screw u over again