Titus, I think if you had someone to share all of those expenses with, it probably wouldn't sound so bad. You're pretty much talking about tackling goals that families go for, but on your own. If I understood right anyway.
Basically I got that out of it as well. Most people try to get in 3 years what their parents got in half a lifetime.
Titus, is your goal actually attainable with your current salary?