Weekends....

I'm not entirely a traditionalist but I think that if my girl wanted to go out, drink, and dance then I better be with her or she better be dancing with her girlfriends and not random guys. Otherwise that relationship probably would not last too long. It's asking for trouble and it's a nice red flag. Whether or not you -know- you're going to do something, it's not right for you to go out and do that when it bothers your signifigant other with GOOD REASON. You're with the guy that cheated on you. That sucks. But if you want a relationship to work you can't hold grudges because that's not how a relationship should be. You do what you want and enjoy the arguments that ensue because I'll have to agree with Kaneda on this one. He can be quite a dick but he has very sound reasoning for this. Relationships involve comprimises and you know you can do something fun that doesn't have to involve the company of some dumbass calling you and asking you if you'd cheat or not ...haha.

Ok, you know such little about the situation. I would LOVE to have Kaneda come out with me. He hates the club scene unless he's with someone else. he's never even tried to go w.me, and believe me I have BEGGED him! It's not a random guy, and he knows i have boundries and limits. Yes dance, No grabbing or other activities.

You don't know what our conversation was about and we were talking about relationships going wrong when that came up.

AND, it seems to me that you guys are forgetting a VERY important part to this story, Kaneda told me he wanted to move out and end it earlier that day...and i STILL didn't fuck someone else. Kaneda hasn't even argued a point here so how are you with him? Yea, he was upset when he found out a guy ended up coming...but he's gone to softball-drinks with girls he works with, where's the difference, honostly?

This thread was supposed to be about weekends. Kaneda and I already talked about what happened and everything.

Well, we're agreeing with Kaneda on the being suspicious. Not the whole threatening to move out.

Women are just as jealous and suspicious of men with female friends, it's the jealous nature of the beast.

Slightly off topic, but I hope you mention to hopeful guys that you're involved if they go to buy you a drink. Women who are involved and go to the bar to sponge drinks off the hopeful single guys rank only slightly better than outright thieves in my book.

Agree with that Ahaha.


Sounds like you and Kaneda are going to end up sharing custody ..

Ok, you know such little about the situation. I would LOVE to have Kaneda come out with me. He hates the club scene unless he's with someone else. he's never even tried to go w.me, and believe me I have BEGGED him! It's not a random guy, and he knows i have boundries and limits. Yes dance, No grabbing or other activities. You don't know what our conversation was about and we were talking about relationships going wrong when that came up. AND, it seems to me that you guys are forgetting a VERY important part to this story, Kaneda told me he wanted to move out and end it earlier that day...and i STILL didn't fuck someone else. Kaneda hasn't even argued a point here so how are you with him? Yea, he was upset when he found out a guy ended up coming...but he's gone to softball-drinks with girls he works with, where's the difference, honostly? This thread was supposed to be about weekends. Kaneda and I already talked about what happened and everything.

You guys have a fucked up relationship x_X.

Kaneda just goes back and forth with what he wants from life (if you couldn't tell all along...). Our relationship is healthy otherwise. Our arguments are minor and stupid usually.

Of course I tell people im involved. There are rules when getting drinks. 1-you talk to who bought you a drink for at least half your drink. 2- You NEVER ask for a drink. 3- you (i) talk about (kaneda) at least %25 of the time.

Haha if my girl went clubbing w/o me I'd kick her to the curb faster than her pants drop when I come over.



PS: I still get a crack out of the fact that kaneda was busted because of this forum.

PSS: It's still kinda wrong to have other guys buying you drinks......you know they didn't buy it to hear all about your fiance you know?

Alcohol from guys = getting in your pants. If you're too oblivious and stupid to see that then you either want to cheat or really are a dumbass.

Alcohol from guys = getting in your pants. If you're too oblivious and stupid to see that then you either want to cheat or really are a dumbass.

You obviously have never been in the "getting drinks situation". And if a guy thinks he's gonna get laid that's his problem for being retarded.

People want people to socialize with, not just FUCK. you guys make me sick, and really need to grow up.

AND i already said, Kaneda won't go out with me, he doesn't like clubs.

You're talking with virgins about relationship advice/situations. What do you expect? Half of them don't have any idea what they're talking about (WillKill).

You obviously have never been in the "getting drinks situation". And if a guy thinks he's gonna get laid that's his problem for being retarded. People want people to socialize with, not just FUCK. you guys make me sick, and really need to grow up. AND i already said, Kaneda won't go out with me, he doesn't like clubs.

So you're going to tell me that when a guy buys you a drink, he's not thinking about getting in your pants? How would you even know what a guy thinks..

There is not one guy on the face of the earth that I know of that is going to go out to a 'club' to socialize. It may seem that way to you, but ALL guys just want to have sex.

Edit: Unless they're gay, or legitimately wanting to just talk, and that'll usually end up in sex too.

You obviously have never been in the "getting drinks situation". And if a guy thinks he's gonna get laid that's his problem for being retarded. People want people to socialize with, not just FUCK. you guys make me sick, and really need to grow up. AND i already said, Kaneda won't go out with me, he doesn't like clubs.

I will say that i know alot of people that like to go out and socialize, without fucking being a main issue. But if a guy buys you a drink and you flirt with him, then why would he be retarted to think that he might get lucky? I also know alot of girls that wont pay for drinks for the entire night because they will flirt with guys, knowing how guys will assume they will get lucky if they buy the drinks. Its not right or wrong, its just how things are. Personally, i dont go to bars to look for women. If i see a girl i might have an intellectual conversation with, ill buy a drink. If she intiates something after the fact, buy me a drink after or invite me out again, then maybe the thought creeps into my mind. But other then that, i dont think buying a drink and accepting a drink is the go ahead for anything.

Of course I tell people im involved. There are rules when getting drinks. 1-you talk to who bought you a drink for at least half your drink. 2- You NEVER ask for a drink. 3- you (i) talk about (kaneda) at least %25 of the time.

Glad to hear that.

Oh, and to keep on the current topic, my cock is bigger than all of yours.