Dazzed and Confused............

Okay I will answer this only cuase King may have not read my last post before it was deleted. Situation is that me and fiancee moved back to Ontario and are working to move back to Red Deer to be close to the kids again. In doing so, My fiancee has given full custody to the ex-husband to all three children. There is nothing I can do about nor can my family cause I am not legally married to her yet. Right now I am doing the only thing I can do for now for my family which is working hard and long shifts at a Wendy's resturant and saving as much as I can. It's a waiting game now, and it seems to be working. So far the ex-husband is begging her to come back to Red Deer, not to go back to him cause he knows now that I am here to stay in her life as her one and only but he as somewhat excepted me as their stepfather and sees that they (the kids) need me as much as they need their mother. Work has said that they do tranfers between stores but we would be on our own in moving back. Wife-to-be says that even though they may not be able to transfer me to the other store, it's fine cause one of her old workplaces has been asking if I would come work for them (I know, I am thinking it's a little to late for that since they had a chance to ask when I was there, but don't be looking a gift horse in the mouth). We call them every week as much as we can, and we have a big decision to make. We are going to be going back in july, but will it be just for a visit, or will it be for good?? Bottem line on that is we want to have enough money behind us so we don't have to rely on anyone there for support, and maybe get a place of our own instead of renting, or staying at a hotel. We have to take this one step at a time, we need to do this right or everything we have fought for, would be for nothing.