All men are pigs and/or manwhores. They have no standards and don't care about the emotional welfare of their significant other. They are motivated by teh sexx0rz.
Is this true of some, maybe a majority of men? Yeah. Is it true of all guys? Obviously not. To say that would be vastly ignorant, seeing as I do not know the personality of every man on earth.
Obviously the main point in life is usually sex. It's what guarentees our genetics passing on. While that is a direct motivation for a lot of things, not all people pursue it in the same direction.
Yeah, of course we want sex, but that doesn't mean it's the only thing we/I care about. I know for a fact my girlfriend and I won't have sex before we're married. If all I cared about was sex, I would not be with her seeing as how I won't get any. I compliment my girl everyday and she likes it. We've got a great relationship and just to throw this thread back on topic, she doesn't control me or try to. Hah.
Man, I had a relationship like that before. I was all about it while in it, but thinking back on it makes me realize how patient I was. I honestly think that relationships with sex are more fulfilling, but then again, that is just my opinion, having had the better of both.
And Grav's exactly right about the smart girls. (I'm guessing its the exact same for smart guys vs stupid guys.) That IS one thing I do like very much about being an artist. Artists want to be with other artists, ideally. And in that case, it's a general, level playing field for both sexes' mentality. So its fun, alotta fun.
I really don't see why waiting till then means anything....getting married dosen't make you love each other, its the result of love, same way should be with sex
I hate when people say they have to wait to be married to have sex, that's just not right for ones body. And I hate it how some girls think sex is evil or something and won't go near it.
I really don't see why waiting till then means anything....getting married dosen't make you love each other, its the result of love, same way should be with sex
I have nothing against sex and I really couldn't give a hoot if I had sex with my girlfriend every day. She, on the other hand, is hella abstinent. She is very religious; she's just been raised that way. She will not have sex until she's married, that's just what the Bible has led her to believe is the ultimate truth. That doesn't bother me though, and I'm not saying the Bible is wrong. It's all just what we've been brought up with and what our beliefs are.
Chruser said:
Maybe she was referring to porn?
Then that's her fault for looking at porn every day.
I was referring to advertisements. While racy ads might lead the regular, hulking, usually horned-up population to buy something based on the sex appeal in it's commercial, I find it distasteful. But hey, that's me against the world, so forget it.