Love is caring about someone enough to put their needs before your own.
I've gotta disagree on that one. It's certainly a chivalrous notion, but not an entirely realistic one. If I love a girl, am I supposed to take a second job and never attend college in order to help pay for her tuition? Am I supposed to sacrifice everything I need in order to fulfill the needs of the one I love?
Like I said, it's a noble thing to say, but life doesn't really work like that. You have to take care of your own corner first before you can start passing out help to others.