Druid Spirit Question

I made a melee druid a lil while ago i'm lvl 20 now and i can't choose which spirit to use... oak sage for alot of life.. or the other one for dmg and ar i think that i would need the ar but the life wouldn't be bad either dunno what to pick sooo what do you guys think and if you say druids suck i don't care cus i've made just about everything else

oak! Have you ever seen any other druid that have another dpirit beside oak?!?!

go for oak, since u'll hav a lot of ar already, juz wear angelics ammy+rings,hsarus boots+belt for Ar and chamed SS+15dr 2xshealed coa for max Dr and use eth Dc as weap

What is dc? and on the last spirit thingy it says dmg reflected or something does that mean they don't dmg you? or is it just like thorns kinda? and i have ummm... non eth botd zerk for wep