First date... Ever!?!?!?

good luck dude hope all goes well. movies are good for first dates cause u dont have to say alot, but thats also the downfall of them. make sure u at least go out after and offer to pay. They love that shit

good luck dude hope all goes well. movies are good for first dates cause u dont have to say alot, but thats also the downfall of them. make sure u at least go out after and offer to pay. They love that shit

Now that's one place a lot of people will debate with you. I've been told by numerous people that, contrary to popular belief, not paying for things on a date is a good thing to do. I can't explain the logic or testify to whether it actually works, as I've never tried it, but like I said, I heard it from more than just a handful of people.

Maybe when people pay a lot for things on a date the other half will become used to having things bought for them and end up expecting it during the relationship. Then when the "payee" hasn't the cash, the relationship will begin to break up as the "non-payee" starts wondering why they aren't having things bought for them - "You don't love me any more!"

Just a horribly random guestimate there. Don't quote me on it.

I dunno, I'm a big sucker for chivalry. I always offer to pay when I'm on a date, at least if I'm interested in the girl. If I'm just out with a friend we split it.

Now that's one place a lot of people will debate with you. I've been told by numerous people that, contrary to popular belief, not paying for things on a date is a good thing to do. I can't explain the logic or testify to whether it actually works, as I've never tried it, but like I said, I heard it from more than just a handful of people.

It all depends on the girl, some girls get annoyed when guys open doors for them and pay for stuff and things like that, I'm lucky enough to have one that doesn't mind me being a gentleman, because I am one.

so in conclusion- girls suck when it comes to dating. Cause us guys can never figure them out. Anyways, i like to offer just so its out on the table (to pay). If they let me, then id be happy to pay, if not idont mind pocketing the extra cash

Now that's one place a lot of people will debate with you. I've been told by numerous people that, contrary to popular belief, not paying for things on a date is a good thing to do. I can't explain the logic or testify to whether it actually works, as I've never tried it, but like I said, I heard it from more than just a handful of people.

Girls pay for me all the time =/

Is kind of like a 50:50 thing......lets say if we go to dinner, I'll pay, then we go to movies, they'll pay. I dont tell them to pay either, they usually offer to.