Is this right or wrong or...

Seems to me like she's being negligent of your feelings. If she wasn't over him she shouldn't have gotten involved.

well she did tell me she at the beginning she was afraid this would happen, but i didnt care. and i still would of made the same choice knowing what i know now

k, guess all you can do is wait it out. I'm sure you knew this and you just got on here for some confirmation of what you already felt.

yea i just want to make sure what im doing isnt just some stupid idiotic thing... like when your friend does the dumbest shit for love and you're like WHAT AN IDIOT, but he dosent see it... dont want to be that friend right now lol

Stick with her until something bad happens between her and her ex. Guess which shoulder she'll cry on then?

write her a haiku.

you know what is sad... she's the shoulder i "cry" on when shit is bad with her lol. i dont mean literally cry... tho i want to, its not good to cry.

lean on me acer, oh lean on me!

I don't get what's so wrong with guys crying. As long as they aren't emo-weepy there's not a problem with it.