Is this right or wrong or...

i dont have a problem crying, but i dont want her thinking im boo hooing over her and shit.

It's against the belief system that guys should be the emotional equivelant of the rock of jibralter(I'm sure I misspelled it but I couldn't be bothered looking up the correct spelling so diee.)

I think it's all a load of crap.

Sure it is as are many "norms."

yea, but think about it... if i cried when i was upset about it all, and im around her... it would make her feel bad, she dosent want to feel bad, so she's not going to want to be around me if i make her feel bad

If she doesn't want to be around you for showing your emotions then f her :P.

there is a difference between crying and showing your emotions... if you cry all the time, its straight up annoying

Like my sisters' ex. Jesus, I think that man had a pair of ovaries...