Jen

First off, I'm just curious as to why you guys feel the need to post your girl problems on here.

But really, no one can help you. She thinks she has to make a desision and if she keeps thinking that, she will. Perhaps tell her that she doesn't have to, or just ask her why she broke up with him in the first place. That will put things a little in your favor. Cause really, it shouldnt be a competition. Because no matter what she picks, weather its with you or not, shes not gonna be completely happy.