Smoking, childcare, and ruining one's relationship with a threesome

I don't think its healthy, and it would ruin any relationship i was in. I coudln't stand seeing my lover look at someone else in a sexual way...eh not happening. ugh, actually almost upsets me to think about it . although i guess that if i thought it would make him happy i'd do it, but then never want to do him again. lol

I'd have a major problem with him wanting to do it without me, honestly. At least if I'm there, I can say I monitored in some way.

I'd have a major problem with him wanting to do it without me, honestly. At least if I'm there, I can say I monitored in some way.

What does it matter? If he's messing around on someone without you there or messing around with someone with you there, he's still messing around with someone either way.

The difference is I can know what he's doing. Whether he's using protection or not, whether there may be a slight romantic fling between the two.

Who cares what the details are, he's fucking around with someone else.

I care about the details.

Eh, if im sleeping with someone i better be all they need to be sleeping with.