I have a problem.

Also, don't call the police there. Get with your local police. They can handle it from there.

Exactly, have your mother report it as a kidnapping, and give the police the information you have about the father. Let him have it in the nuts if he wants to play hardball.

Only thing that might fuck you over is the fact that you've waited 8 months to file any charges x_X. But it's definitely the route to go.

Exactly, have your mother report it as a kidnapping, and give the police the information you have about the father. Let him have it in the nuts if he wants to play hardball.

My mom has talked to them here....I am pretty sure they told her it had to be done there, and even though his name isn't on the birth records, my son's last name is his. That was part of the problem too, the police here, and there, don't want to do anything because he claims to be the father, even though he has no proof of it. That is what the police here told her part of our problem was. But that doesn't seem right. I will talk to her again about what they said, but in ways, I think the police are just fucking off because they do not want to get involved.

Oh and K_A, since when are the names Vincent and Dante so bad. (Honestly, I hate most boy names, and those were some of the few I actually liked. Gimme a girl, and I have quite a few names I like.)

Since they sound like they should be wearing all red and black and killing evil shit.

Since they sound like they should be wearing all red and black and killing evil shit.

LOL ok then.

Devil May Cry?

And Final Fantasy 7.

Dante is from Devil May Cry, Vincent is from Final Fantasy 7, both were pretty dark characters.

Should have named them Ebony and Ivory?

And Final Fantasy 7. Dante is from Devil May Cry, Vincent is from Final Fantasy 7, both were pretty dark characters.

I know I am a gamer and all, so I suppose that is why people think I named my kids the names I did. I did not though. I actually went through the baby books and all. I suppose if I was going to name my kids after some people from games, those two would be pretty good.

My mom has talked to them here....I am pretty sure they told her it had to be done there, and even though his name isn't on the birth records, my son's last name is his. That was part of the problem too, the police here, and there, don't want to do anything because he claims to be the father, even though he has no proof of it. That is what the police here told her part of our problem was. But that doesn't seem right. I will talk to her again about what they said, but in ways, I think the police are just fucking off because they do not want to get involved. Oh and K_A, since when are the names Vincent and Dante so bad. (Honestly, I hate most boy names, and those were some of the few I actually liked. Gimme a girl, and I have quite a few names I like.)

May I ask how old you are?? Also why don't you have custody? why does your mom?... I know alot about custody. I could help you since my dad is a Divorce Lawyer and he handles cases with kids and who has custody of them.

By this you mean you're 50 years old and you want to steal her kids away from her so you can do dirty things to them.

By this you mean you're 50 years old and you want to steal her kids away from her so you can do dirty things to them.

No, Im 20... I just can't figure out why the mom has custody? If its her kid ???

Sounds to me like the childrens' mother is a fuck up in life so her mom got handed the responsibility. If I were the father of her children I'd probably take them too.

I'm not saying I know anything about their situation, but she named her kids after video game characters, and judging by her profile she thinks about nothing but video games and the internet.

I mean, she's 23, and her mother has custody of her children, there's not much else to assume from that.

No, Im 20...

That...is the saddest thing I have heard all week. Sadder than Hunsy's situation.

May I ask how old you are?? Also why don't you have custody? why does your mom?... I know alot about custody. I could help you since my dad is a Divorce Lawyer and he handles cases with kids and who has custody of them.

I am 23. My mom had custody because I gave it to her in hopes that it would help me to get my son back, because that meant there were custody papers and the police wouldn't tell me "well there is no custody set", but it obviously didn't help. I gave her custody just before my second try to go to CO and get him. Before that, there was no "custody". I knew that because I had already been through it with my first son when my ex-mother-in-law took my child and played car tag with him to keep him from me because she wanted him.

If there was no custody, how did you give custody to your mother?

If there was no custody, how did you give custody to your mother?

I mean there were no legal papers stating custody. By all means, I had sole custody, but without papers to prove that, the police just tell you to fuck yourself. Apparently, even with papers, they do the same thing. Just like if someone take you to court to sue you, you are the one that has to prove it, they don't have to do anything. So, I call the police, and even if I had papers to state custody, and the father did as well, and I have the custody, he doesn't have to show the cops shit, I do.