Weekends....

Well, I gotta back Kaneda on this one. I'd be pissed if I had an argument and my girl went out and got plastered while hanging out with some dude. Just because he's in a relationship and you're engadged doesn't mean something couldn not happen. A lot of people in relationships cheat (as you personally know =P). That's just a guy's perspective.

I envy yall, I work from friday evening to sunday evening sometimes Monday evening... I don't get to have crazy weekends really... Lucky ppl

Well, I gotta back Kaneda on this one. I'd be pissed if I had an argument and my girl went out and got plastered while hanging out with some dude. Just because he's in a relationship and you're engadged doesn't mean something couldn not happen. A lot of people in relationships cheat (as you personally know =P). That's just a guy's perspective.

I was planning on going out on Saturday with this girlfriend of mine anyways.

And out "argument" consisted of...
If you didn't need money I'd be out. I'm sick of you.
Why you ask? Because HE didn't get to go to the gym 3 times that week. WTF?!?!?! I don't get to go to the gym a lot because he wants to therefore he won't pick up the baby etc. ITS BULLSTHIT.

3 hours later (after I'd been holding back tears and dealing with it at work):
"that wasn't fair, I love you..."

NOW, imo if something HAD happened (even though it didn't...) I think it would have been semi-justified.

Well, I gotta back Kaneda on this one. I'd be pissed if I had an argument and my girl went out and got plastered while hanging out with some dude. Just because he's in a relationship and you're engadged doesn't mean something couldn not happen. A lot of people in relationships cheat (as you personally know =P). That's just a guy's perspective.

That's how I seen it too

But I was planning on going out that weekend anways?!?!
AND the guy i went out with knows im with kaneda...asked me if i would ever cheat, and i said no...it was in a txt that kaneda read. You don't let your gf have guy friends?!? I appreciate kaneda more when I talk to guys sometimes...he's the only one so far that I am on the same page with. I love HIM, and he should be confident in that.

Yeah but that's just our perspective, as GUYS.

Of course my girlfriend can have guy friends, there's nothing wrong with that. But for one, if they ask if SHE would ever cheat, that's a red flag. And then she decides to go out and get shitfaced with them, that'd be another red flag, for me atleast.


Just another reason I want to wait some time before I have kids...

And I wasn't planning on meeting up with him..just told him where I was going and casually invited him.

He asked if i would cheat prolly to see my character. Kaneda had me ask him if he would and he said no as well?!?

Damn he's suspicious then.. He probably figures you guys have been messing around, just don't be too upset when you find out he's done something... Doesn't sound like there's a lot of trust there..

Eh, he has no reason to not trust me. And i've made the decision to trust him again...?

I see where he could be upset, but if i wanted something else, i'd have it and leave him...just because HE has taken up an opportunity doesn't mean I would.