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and i have a cousin who has asberger's and she shouldn't be allowed to ever have children, because mentally, she is a child.

Actually, people with Asperger syndrome have no general delay in language or cognitive development. Motor clumsiness and low levels of emotional response are common, but they are often highly intelligent.

It's possible your cousin has a more severe form of Autism, or another, unrelated disorder in addition to Asperger syndrome, but either way, Asperger syndrome should not be considered related to her symptom you stated.