fuck my life

One of my best friends, Tiva, told me the other day that she has a brain tumor, and only about a year or 2 left because it's in a bad place they can't really get rid of it without casuing servere damage. She is refusing all chemo and other kinds of treatment and it really upset me. Last night my other friend Courtney (not a close friend, just a girl i talked to and had good times with in school and theatre) died of a brain tumor. They told her 6 months ago that she should have a while, and now this.

My mind is just all over the place and im crazy depressed. I feel bad, I stopped talking to courtney the past few months but I still feel so upset I'm like in tears. And now I'm even more scared for Tiva. I don't know what to do.

man i dont really know what to say but im fell really sorry for you esp with a best friend and tumors are harse you just gotta keep you mind straight and all and dont think of ever killing your self

That's difficult.

Remember to take the time to be depressed. It's not healthy for you if you don't. But be sure you let her know that she's loved. Don't cut her off. She'll need to know that you're there for her, otherwise it'll just be harder for the both of you.

Yikes. Make sure you get yourself checked out, too. There might be some kind of contaminant in the water or something in your town?

Well, all I can say is follow the advice of this!

Sorry to hear talented. Take the time to remember Court and all the good times you had. Then make sure that the time you spend with your other friend is meaningful. IT something that you will never like or accept, but this is life. Somebody once told me (a religious figure) that when people die young, it is because god needs them in one way or another. Whether you believe that or not, its just something to help people cope. If you need to talk, feel free here or over at facebook.

Dang .... that is like a worst possible scenario that could possibly happen.

When something like this goes down you have to just keep in mind of everything good that has happened to you or to them or with you guys together. Dwelling on something you have no control over will only damper your spirits. And especially having two in the same area, that does sound pretty weird...

Yikes. Make sure you get yourself checked out, too. There might be some kind of contaminant in the water or something in your town?

That's what I was thinking...

I'm sorry to hear about this talented, just wish we could help somehow. =/

That's what I was thinking... I'm sorry to hear about this talented, just wish we could help somehow. =/

Nah, that would mean i would have something too. And i know for sure that i dont... i should probably go get checked

I know how you feel Talented. I've had various relatives die of Cancer, including my Grandfather on my Dad's side and both of my grandparents on my Mom's side (I didn't even get to meet them). Like posts above have suggested, try to spend as much time with your friend, and make every moment count.

thanks everybody. i'm doing okay, the funeral was today. idk, i told my friend tiva about the other girl and she got mad at me...i guess i scared her =/ blehh i think i'm just going to ignore it ya know? i mean of course i will mourn for courtney im just gonna pretend for now that tiva is fine just like anyone else.

yeah that's all you can really do. I mean, like, what is out of your control is outta your control.. there is no changing that, or getting around that. I'm sure in time your friend will come around to the different options that are going to be able to her, if she's being truthful about her condition.