Sushi? Or more?

And that's what I feel like such an asshat for... I can only guess what kinda signals I'm sendin'...

Well you shouldn't. It's not like she is your girlfriend or anything. She was just being nice, you are looking too much into it. Who cares, it's just another girl. There are billions of them in this world.

Yeah, but if I am coming off as a player, then I won't even have a friend... and only havin' y'all to talk to gets boring... None of you are gonna fly to California to go to the movies, or hang out at the beach or any of that jazz...

Yeah, but if I am coming off as a player, then I won't even have a friend... and only havin' y'all to talk to gets boring... None of you are gonna fly to California to go to the movies, or hang out at the beach or any of that jazz...

This quote tells me all I need to know. A player wouldn't worry about coming off as a player.

Yeah, but if I am coming off as a player, then I won't even have a friend... and only havin' y'all to talk to gets boring... None of you are gonna fly to California to go to the movies, or hang out at the beach or any of that jazz...

I think the last thing you need to worry about is coming across as a player.

Seriously chill. Figure out some way to get your stress out BEFORE you meet women, maybe you'll be more relaxed that way. You're thinking WAY too much.

Also, if you gave her $25 to cover a $13 check and told her to keep the rest as a tip...it probably sounds fly to begin with, but that's kinda weird as fuck, and were I a chick, I'd probably be weirded out by that. Maybe I'm wrong, but that's how I see it. It would also seem kinda desperate, to me, were I the girl.

Also, if you gave her $25 to cover a $13 check and told her to keep the rest as a tip...it probably sounds fly to begin with, but that's kinda weird as fuck, and were I a chick, I'd probably be weirded out by that. Maybe I'm wrong, but that's how I see it. It would also seem kinda desperate, to me, were I the girl.

Exactly. Its one thing if one of your actual friends works at a place and you fork out a huge tip to help 'em out, but just some chick that's nice to you by doing that is probably throwing red flags up, but who knows. I'm thinking the same as you K_A.

Actually, I always tip rather large... I worked at a bar for a while and tips are a BIG part of your income. I know some people who never even had to cash their checks because tips kept 'em doin' well enough.

Also... I don't do social interactions well... you have no idea how hard it was for me to just plain go there...

Just don't think about anything, anymore, ever.

Start smoking some fucking weed man, that is exactly what will make you not fret about stupid shit anymore. It's the perfect antidote for not caring about stupid shit.