Oral is not sex. Having sexual intercourse (for lack of better words) is putting your penis into a girl's vagina. That is sexual intercourse, and is how you lose your virginity. Oral is not sex.
How the hell oral sex is consider real sex?? Sucking dick is not sex it just sound better by calling it "oral sex".
For a second you make me think that if a girl sucks a dick her mouth is not virgin anymore... just like ass.
Who the hell cares? Of course it's not "sex", that term is reserved for sexual intercourse. It is a sexual act though, and engaging in it means a loss of virginity. Losing your virginity doesn't mean vaginal penetration, it means breaking the "seal of purity" on your sexual history. Once you've engaged in any form of sexual act, you are no longer a virgin. That's all there is to it.
It's like opening a bottle of Snapple. You may not drink the whole damn thing, but the bottle has still been opened, and as such, it's purity has been compromised.
So if a girl gives you a hand-job like I said before, its sexual, so you lose your virginity? No, same with oral sex.
Your analogy would work if your saying, if you start to have sex, but don't finished you still lose your viginity. You used 1 thing in your analogy, the one drink, and you are refering it to 2 things, sex, and oral.
His analogy likens the bottle to virginity and the drinking of it to sex.
I don't see it the same way, however.
If I have a bottle of Snapple, and I rub it with my hand, it is still a closed. The only way to make it an open bottle is to... open it. Bah.
I would say that your opinion on this is based upon your idea of what virginity is, but in all actuality, it's the other way around. Your definition of virginity is based upon what you believe will and won't take it away. Dictionary.com says that virginity can be lost by coitus or other genital contact. That's obviously what Raziel believes. It's apparant that many others who posted before him believe otherwise.
My personal view is that the only thing that inovkes a loss of virginity is coitus.
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Heh, I don't think for a second oral sex consists of a loss of virginity, but others have different views. For that matter, I technically don't even consider having anal sex with a chick losing your virginity. For loose interpretation, the only way I would consider a sexual act an act of losing your virginity would be if there is the possibility of getting a female pregnant, without any outside tampering.
Yes, I know artificial insemination wouldn't consist of losing your virginity, which is what I meant from "without any outside tampering". Male's penis thrusting in a woman's vagina is a loss of virignity in my book.
I dated this weird girl in high school who felt that as long as her vagina was not penetrated in any way she was still "pure" and would go to her marriage bed a virgin. I had her in every way possible except the vagina. I felt that she was an idiot at the time but everyone hear has some valid points. I was getting blown long before I got laid and I still considered myself a virgin until that day. (January 30th 1983)
Heh, I don't remember the date I lost mine, but I do remember the age. 18... No offense, but I highly doubt you lost your virginity yet, seeing your pic and all..
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