stupid boyfriend troubles

well cause abusive guys arent abusive from the beginning. they're nice, and treat us nice at first. then when we love them, it gets bad. trust me i know.

The problem is simple.
HuMans are not monogamous by nature.
It's you and societys fault for shoving it down our throats.
Why do you think it's soo simple to create babys?
If we were meant to spend our whole lives with one person, or years even, then the reproduction process would take a year just to inseminate.

dump the asshole.

The problem is simple. HuMans are not monogamous by nature. It's you and societys fault for shoving it down our throats. Why do you think it's soo simple to create babys? If we were meant to spend our whole lives with one person, or years even, then the reproduction process would take a year just to inseminate.

Actually, a lot of species are monogamous. They don't take a "year to inseminate". You're just making excuses to justify your lack of commitment and fidelity.

The problem is simple. HuMans are not monogamous by nature. It's you and societys fault for shoving it down our throats. Why do you think it's soo simple to create babys? If we were meant to spend our whole lives with one person, or years even, then the reproduction process would take a year just to inseminate.

This sums up his relationship perfectly.

The problem is simple. HuMans are not monogamous by nature. It's you and societys fault for shoving it down our throats. Why do you think it's soo simple to create babys? If we were meant to spend our whole lives with one person, or years even, then the reproduction process would take a year just to inseminate.

Edit: its babies hun.

Of course you'd say some shit like this.


OK, on a complete serious note...he's trying to play you. You see it but don't want to leave. YES, he's being a complete ass hole...but its partially your fault for putting up with it. I've come to the realization that if im pissed at him then its partially my fault for putting up with him. You need to decide if that's what you want. He's not going to change because you cry. It probably annoys him. The only way for him to open his eyes is for YOU to leave HIM empty handed...and not take him back when he's sorry. If you do it'll just fall back into the same patterns. Good luck, and make your decisions wisely.

Maybe learn to treat him like you don't give two shits what he does, that'll throw him off and he might start being a little nicer...but FUCK that shit. When kaneda and I went to az recently there were all kinds of girls that he knew in this restaurant he used to work. I have a personal bad history with these girls and him. I brushed it off...but NONE of them cared to say "oh, is this your girl?" GIRLS ARE FUCKING SCANDELOUS TOO. if you read back in our story...one of my old FRIENDS tried hooking up with him when i was pgt. Watch your back, and keep in mind that there ARE other people out there, and it's ok (very healthy) to be alone too.

Yea, i did something like that. I flipped on him, i told him that because of his constant lying and breaking promises and treating me like shit that it was over and he was never gonna see me again. He basically broke down. I felt a little bad, but didnt say it. I just kept going on and on about him not knowing my birthday, or my name for that matter and he like begged me not to break up with him. he promised things would be different, and ill give it a little to see if they are. if not, fuck him. but if they are, id really like to stay with him.

You have to stand your guns at this point. It was REALLY REALLY hard for me to move out when i was pgt, but i knew i had to. Things were going from bad to worse...

sooo, next time he does one thing that is in the same field of what you discussed with him you say "we talked about this..." if he realizes it, good...he's moving forward. if he's got more of "fuck you" attitude forget him. If it continues and he's still like "sorry" EVERY TIME...he's just fukin' with you.

yea. idk, he seems serious this time. usually i have a bad feeling but this time i don't. like i said ill give him a try. thanks ppls!