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Unhappy Offically the shittiest day of my life.
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Posted 2005-09-14, 01:38 PM
Well, let me start out with my saying that my girlfriend and i have been going out for four years. It has been a very good relationship from the start. We always got along, we new almost everything about eachother, ect. Not to long ago, we took a small break, i guess she just wanted to have a little fun because she cant really do anything with other guys since we've been together for four years. We got back together and everything was going perfect. Untill my best friend ive known since the first grade started being an asshole.

I first learned he was talking shit about me from her. He basically told her i was talking behind her back, which was a complete lie. When i confronted him about it, he said she knew he was just kidding. (She takes everything she hears seriously). He told a few lies here and there. But today was THE MOST RETARTED SHIT I HAVE EVER HEARD IN MY ENTIRE LIFE!!!!!! He told her that he and i were playing playstation or somthing, and that i held a knife to his throat after he beat me in a race. He also told her that onetime when i was late for a date with her, i was really hanging out with him, though truthfully i was on my way back from the western part of the state.

So at the end of the day, we meet and are talking, and she tells me everything he said, my girlfriend believe my lying best friend, or former best friend, instead of me. So now we are "just friends" which i imagine will be the most akward thing EVER. So right now im the saddest ive ever been in my life. Theres also the minor shit like i just lost one of my other good friends, school, parents, ect.

Thanks for reading, if you have any advice it would be greatly appriciated.
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Posted 2005-09-14, 01:47 PM in reply to Dar_Win's post "Offically the shittiest day of my life."
If he is telling her lies, he isn't a real friend anyway. You will be better off in the long run by not associating with him anymore. As for your girl, I'm sure you will work things out once she realizes he was lieing to her, which will only happen if you reiterate that to her a lot.

You have to live and learn from this. Hopefully you will be able to avoid people like this in the future..
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Posted 2005-09-14, 02:40 PM in reply to Titusfied's post starting "If he is telling her lies, he isn't a..."
I plan on kicking his ass somtime soon. And sadly, i dont think we will get back together
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Posted 2005-09-14, 02:44 PM in reply to Dar_Win's post starting "I plan on kicking his ass somtime soon...."
He's the very definition of a scumbag, and not worth your time. Find a new friend.


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Posted 2005-09-14, 03:10 PM in reply to JRwakebord's post starting "He's the very definition of a scumbag,..."
Assassinate him.
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Posted 2005-09-14, 03:26 PM in reply to !King_Amazon!'s post starting "Assassinate him."
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Assassinate him.
No, thats to far. Im just going to make his face unrecognizable with my fist.
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Posted 2005-09-15, 06:12 AM in reply to Titusfied's post starting "If he is telling her lies, he isn't a..."
i hate people that lie- fuck them
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Posted 2005-09-15, 01:11 PM in reply to gruesomeBODY's post starting "i hate people that lie- fuck them"
Well, apparently somone told my ex-friend that i was going to kick his ass, so he faked sick and got two of his pussy buddies to help fight me tomorrow. This actually makes me happy because i get to take my anger out on more than him!!!
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Posted 2005-09-15, 02:20 PM in reply to Dar_Win's post starting "Well, apparently somone told my..."
where do you live maybe someone from here could come give you some back up and personally if you do beat the shit out of this kid i am 99% sure that you will forvever be finished with this girl if you arent already, because she broke up with you because you allegedly held a knife to this kids throat so after you kick the shit out of him it would be pretty hard for her no to believe what he told her.
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Posted 2005-09-15, 02:44 PM in reply to tidus2005's post starting "where do you live maybe someone from..."
I already thought about that. But he deserves this, and i hope i can change her mind, but if i dont, i dont, and if i do, then ill be happy. But this kids ass is getting kicked tomorrow, along with his two buddies if they still wish to help him.
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Posted 2005-09-14, 02:40 PM in reply to Dar_Win's post "Offically the shittiest day of my life."
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Posted 2005-09-15, 05:14 AM in reply to Dar_Win's post "Offically the shittiest day of my life."
Stop talking to both of them.

1) Your "friend" is a total wanker.

2) Your girlfriend sounds semi-retarded. Anyone who takes everything seriously is not someone I would assosciate myself with, unless I was harassing them.

As stupid as K_R is, his advice seems solid in this case. Don't even talk to them.

Something sounds fishy, too. UZG might be on to something, here. Usually once you take a "break," it's over though. Regardless of if you get back together.
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Posted 2005-09-20, 11:57 PM in reply to Dar_Win's post "Offically the shittiest day of my life."
First I'll test if I can post, then I'll post. I'm tired of writting a lot only to find out a thread's closed.

Alright, now that I've found out I can, let me start writting something for you... Mind you, I like to speak what's off the top of my mind, so it can get long.

This is the story of Momo, a schoolgirl whom enjoyed swimming, unfortunately her skin tanned quite easily and the crush she had earlier in her life, from what a friend told her, prefered girl with light skin. This crushed her and her hopes as well, and within the newer days at her new school, she had made friends with another girl, someone by the name of Sae, one whom seemed sweet as an angel and had the looks of one.

Though as time grew, Sae seemed to be more and more strange, copying Momo's tastes and style, or behind her back, taking away good deals at shops and whatnot, thus getting more and more attention whilst Momo would still look as displeasing as she has always, since where she is those with light hair and tanned skin such as her are often thought to be beach bunnies.

Toji, Momo's crush from years past, was to this school as well, and in thus finding about it, Sae moved in for the kill, placing distance between the two as she found out Toji had an eye for Momo as well since long past. After a few incidents and misunderstandings, they finally were capable of admitting their feelings to one another, Momo and Toji that is, and went out together, even though they witnessed each other's first kiss taken away by another which was not themselves (I'll explain later)

But, Sae convincing the poor idiotic lug into a few compromising situations(Such as taking his first kiss in a lame attempt/excuse that a girl dislikes a guy without any experience in such matters, kinda forcing his hand too), she managed to drive a wedge between Momo and Toji, through the implementation of rumors and whatnot, scandals here and there, lies about Momo's attitude also began to appear (such as bullying and the likes). As comparing one to another was like comparing a fierce lion to a deer... But if you know, deers can give quite a mean kick.

Momo's first kiss was also stolen by accident by a seemingly playboy by the name of Kiley, bringing this up to Toji through Sae, this drove Toji to disbelieve Momo more and more as time grew. The class she was in began to see her in darker and darker light, wishing nothing good for her and taking revenge for someone whom seemed defenseless for false accusations. The lies reached the ears of Toji and through the piling of rumors and lies and stories, he could no longer bear Momo's presence.

The two broke up painfully, the pain is what had caused Toji to further fall ill then what he already was at the time, being away from class gave ample space for sae to work her charm.

If I am incorrect, this situation is similar to yours in some manner am I not correct? What you lack though is someone to personify Kiley... The wild coyote, the skirt chaser he was, though he flirted and though he stole Momo's first kiss and caused her trouble, he truthfully wished only but good for her.

One of the only ones to pierce through the lies and the deceptions, he was capable of seeing through it all, and instead of taking revenge for her, he decided to rather reveal whom Sae was to the open light. With more then enough proof and witnesses gathered, Kiley whom was much better of a manipulator of events, was capable of getting Toji to interrupt a classroom which had turned into a mob, seeing a wounded Sae from Momo whom had hit her in reflex against the mean things she had said about a friend of hers whom supported her, Kiley to be exact.

With that said, what you need to do if you want your girl back is to show her whom to trust truthfully, to show her the truth of the situation... The problem though, is to show what kind of a lying ass your friend is if he is a lying ass. Like how Sae temporarily stole Toji, your friend might be on the same goal, to take your ex from you. But one should not jump to conclusion.

Clear what's wrong first, redefine your trust with her or wait for time to heal the wounds and show her you are a man of your word and worthy of trust. Whatever method you choose, just remember not to be afraid to be hurt once again, for all relationships start with trust, and if you cannot trust your heart to be in the hands of another... Then you are not truly ready to be in a relationship just yet. Wait for your wounds to heal up a bit, wait till you can trust someone again, and do not worry about being harmed, for if one trusts another mutually, it can become one of the best things...

Just remember, if you get back with her or another, do not always believe the stories told to you about them, best learn from what happened to you and immunize yourself from such manipulations, correct?

Sorry for talking so much and so needlessly. The story I speak of is Peach Girl, have fun looking for it, and don't judge a book by it's cover.

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Posted 2005-09-21, 04:35 AM in reply to Paradox_Knight's post starting "First I'll test if I can post, then..."
What the heck? Peach Girl? Is that a manga?

Oh, and who are you, where did you come from?
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Posted 2005-09-21, 09:50 AM in reply to Grav's post starting "What the heck? Peach Girl? Is that a..."
I'm what would be known as a type of n00b, someone who's new and not familiar with the area and people within the area.

Other then that, yeah it's a manga and I'm from Canada, any other questions? Oh and, if I speak too much, please feel free to express the need that I shut up in whatever method you wish.
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Posted 2005-09-21, 01:33 PM in reply to Paradox_Knight's post starting "I'm what would be known as a type of..."
Oh, Canada. One of those countries that nobody has ever heard of, like London. You should get along with Lenny.
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Posted 2005-09-21, 03:05 PM in reply to Grav's post starting "Oh, Canada. One of those countries that..."
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One of those countries that nobody has ever heard of, like London.
Since when has London been a country?

He he he......silly Grav!
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Posted 2005-09-21, 07:45 PM in reply to Grav's post starting "Oh, Canada. One of those countries that..."
Hmm... since when is London a country... Oh, Canada, where the beer flows free and the beavers run wild... not really, beavers are kinda low in amounts, from what I hear it's one of them species on the brinks of extinction. In any case, I'll shut up now.
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